Psychedelic Preparation: How to Prepare Safely and Reduce Risk

Set refers to your mindset: your emotional state, expectations, intentions, and the personal history you bring into the experience.

Setting refers to your environment: the physical space, the people supporting you, and the overall atmosphere.

Before a retreat, it helps to ask yourself:

  • What is my intention for the experience?
  • Am I open to discomfort?
  • Am I seeking to avoid something?

Set and setting do not guarantee a “good” experience, but they shape your ability to trust the process.

Helpful intentions are open statements that often sound like:

  • “I want to understand my anxiety.”
  • “I want to open my heart.”
  • “I want to learn how to let go.”

Intentions give the experience direction without closing it down.

Expectations, on the other hand, can create resistance. If things don’t unfold the way you imagined, you may struggle to accept what is happening. Intentions guide, but expectations constrain.

This helps your nervous system be more regulated and feel safer, making it easier to let go during the psychedelic journey.

Ask yourself honestly:

  • Do I feel ready enough for this?
  • If I meet difficult emotions, who can support me?

When stepping into a psychedelic experience, your physical environment matters. Your space can signal to your mind that you’re stepping into something meaningful.

Consider preparing the room with clean, uncluttered surfaces. Set up soft or natural lighting. Have a safe place to lie down and prepare some cosy blankets and cushions. Also, ensure that you use music that supports inward exploration.

At the same time, avoid distractions like social media, loud noises, unpredictable visitors, or people who don’t make you feel safe.

This sends a clear message to your system: This is an important moment. This is time to go inward.

A well-prepared space helps the mind relax, and a relaxed mind is more open to whatever comes up.

Pause or postpone if you are in the middle of a mental health crisis, experiencing suicidal thoughts, or feeling emotionally overwhelmed. The same applies if you are under severe pressure or instability, or if you are unable to access proper support.

This work is not about pushing through difficulty. It’s about meeting yourself honestly.

If something in you says “not now,” listen to yourself.

Difficult moments during the psychedelic trip can lead to profound insight and change, sometimes more than the pleasant ones. Fear, sadness, confusion and emotional intensity are not signs that something is going wrong; they are part of the process.

If challenging emotions arise, it helps to follow these simple guidelines:

  • Notice and stay connected to your breath.
  • Ground yourself in your body through awareness, touch or gentle movement.
  • Allow the emotion to come up rather than fighting it.
  • Remind yourself: This will pass.
  • Stay connected to the person accompanying you, the music, or an object that grounds you.

Support makes a huge difference. Skilled facilitators, trained sitters, or a trusted companion help you feel held through the waves of the psychedelic journey. Research has in fact shown that when people are supported properly, challenging experiences often become meaningful and therapeutic rather than destabilising [1].

Good preparation helps you open the door gently, rather than forcing it. It helps you trust yourself, trust the process, and navigate whatever comes up with more clarity and compassion.

Start slow. Stay grounded. Give yourself space. And listen closely. 

The workshop space where the activities are held during the retreat in the psilocybin retreats in the Netherlands that we offer.
Preparation:
1 personal and 1 group integration session
Immersion:
3-day psilocybin retreat with various supporting activities
Integration:
1 personal and 1 group integration session